"He is not here, but has risen."

"And as they were frightened and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, 'Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen.'"

 

He is risen! He is risen indeed! 
We had a wonderful Easter celebrating the empty tomb, and Christ's victory over death. We had a beautiful service at South City Church and a delicious brunch before the service. The sweet girl I mentor, Jasmine, spent the morning with us. Then we went to lunch at The Cheesecake Factory, went for a long walk in Forest Park and came back for an hour long nap! It was a beautiful, and relaxing day.

That being said, this was our first holiday spent without family and I anticipated it feeling kind of lonely. However, as we spent the afternoon walking through Forest Park, my cup overflowed. We didn't feel the least bit lonely, and for the first time in almost three years, I looked at my husband and knew with every inch of me, this is my family. Sam is my family. My heart is full.

Until next time.

Love,
Sam, Katelyn & Ethel

Can you believe that exactly a week ago there was 12 inches of snow on the ground? And yesterday we hit 70 degrees and sunny! Crazy St. Louis weather!

 The sweet girl I mentor, Jasmine.

 Easter 2013

 After church we went to lunch with our St. Louis besties, Amber and Sean. We went back and forth about hosting a few people for lunch, but in the end decided what says "He is Risen" like the amazing cheesecake at The Cheesecake Factory! 

 Then we spent our afternoon at Forest Park, strolling around in the beautiful weather!!! 

Rest.

Hello,

This past week Sam and I were both on spring break. We decided a few months ago to also take this week off our second jobs. Therefore, for the first time in what seems like forever, we had a week with nothing to do! We were encouraged to take this week and not schedule anything -- which is extremely hard for both of us. Before we knew it, we had scheduled dinner dates, coffee dates, and time trying to "catch up"with people. It took everything in us to cancel those plans and finally take a much needed sabbatical. But.. we did it! And it was awesome.

Resting is really hard for us, and we struggled at the beginning of the week with what resting (with each other) "looks like". By the end of the week, we were a little teary eyed as we reflected on the week of intentional time with each other. Engaging with each other in real conversation, not the daily (in passing) conversation. We found ourselves delighting in listening to a record without multitasking, going on walk that was just for enjoyment, and spending time loving each other well. We haven't felt this way since our honeymoon, and it so refreshing. We feel rested. That being said, tomorrow we jump back into the daily struggle to communicate in between our four jobs, and finding the tiny cracks of time to spend intentionally with each other. We see the need to take time "away" from our busyness, and be present with each other so we hope that we become better at scheduling that time.

All to say, this has been a week of resting, delighting in each other, celebrating God's magnificent creation in wonderful food, breathtaking art, snugly naps with Ethel, and walks in beautiful places. We are thankful for a week of rest that has helped us realize our hastiness in life and the struggle to be intentional ... but the beauty that comes from slowing down.

Lots of love,
Sam, Katelyn & Ethel

 

We started the long process of cleaning the basement and organizing our "stuff" for our move. We were on a roll, so we decided to spend 10 hours on Monday cleaning... the final product felt great! We gave 50 bags to Goodwill, and have a good amount of stuff that we will be selling at a yard sale in April. Yay for productivity! That may not sound particularly restful, but it felt so good when it was over.

 We spent a morning at the St. Louis Art Museum. It was fun enjoying beautiful art and enjoying intentional time together. Lunch at Chipotle followed, and dinner with a good friend/pastor (the one that married us), James. James was in town for the LIFE conference meeting, and we enjoyed dinner and wonderful conversation at one of our favorite restaurants -- The Tap Room. 

 We also enjoyed a 48 degree day of park hopping and apartment hunting! 

Spring break would not have been complete without some snuggle time with the cutest twins in town. I spent an afternoon drinking Starbucks and enjoying Mariah and the babies this week, while Sam got some school reading done. Of course, he couldn't pick me up without a little Caleb time.

Thursday night of spring break, we spent a night at the beautiful Chase Park Plaza Hotel in St. Louis. The hotel was built in 1922 and has hosted every US president from the 1920's to 1990's. It has also been a venue for many famous musicians, and the Miss America pageant in 1956. Needless to say, its pretty swanky. We enjoyed dinner at Eau Bistro in the hotel (most amazing fettuccine and sea bass ever) and a movie to follow at the Chase Park Cinema (inside the hotel).

 To end our spring break on a great note -- Mom and Dad Haist came to visit! We enjoyed a meal at home on Friday night when they arrived, and of course good eatin' the rest of the weekend. We went to one of our new favorite breakfast places, Half and Half, on Saturday morning and then spent the rest of the morning at the breathtaking Cathedral Basilica. There is NO paint in the Basilica -- its all mosaics, making it the most mosaic filled cathedral in the world. Then we enjoyed seeing a matinee movie at a creepy theater in the afternoon, followed by dinner at Sugarfire Smokehouse. Unfortunately, our weekend was cut short by the impending snow storm. Its already coming down pretty hard!

 And of course -- an Ethel picture. Not just any Ethel picture, but the perfect picture to sum up our week of rest. We're pretty sure Ethel does not struggle with with the ability to rest.

Wintertime.

Hello! 

Well, once again, its been a long stretch since our last blog. In all seriousness, it's Sam's fault. Every time I sat down to blog he just happened to be at work and didn't know his Google password off hand! So, blame Sam :) (just kidding!)

Since its been awhile, here is a quick update on our lives this winter. 

Sam got us Wicked tickets for Christmas! This was my second time seeing it, and I love it!!!! We went to a beautiful dinner, and then enjoyed the show at the breathtaking Fox Theater.

 We have finally moved into our new church building! Yahoo! Its beautiful. Unfortunately, after a week of being in the new building the AC units were stolen. Welcome to the neighborhood! 

 

My parents and Jesse came down for the big Grand Opening of our building on January 27th! We had a blast spending time with them and of course eating delicious food. I was very brave, and decided to join the choir for the big event -- here we are singing a beautiful song called "Blessed". 

 In general, we are just too busy! When we do have time to sit down together during the week we have found ourselves in this sleepy rut. We usually turn on the TV and are both snoring logs in minutes, during the little time we have to spend together! So, we have started to play more games and we are really enjoying it. We played Monopoly on Monday night (Sam's favorite), and it was fun ...but only because I won :) 

What is a blog update without a picture of cute dog?? She is finally getting over a 2 week antibiotic for an infected cyst on her foot. Poor little pup.

Another highlight of January (other then my parents coming!) was this cutie and his sweet parents coming to visit!!! We got to watch Alex as Robyn and Justin enjoyed the performance, STOMP. We had a yummy lunch at Pappy's and then this little guy kept us on our toes most of the afternoon. He's just too cute! 

Other then that, we continue to work and be busy! Every night of our week is filled with something... which is something we are going to be more conscious of next year. Its time to cut a few things out of our schedules! We have felt completely exhausted these weeks after Christmas! Spring break couldn't come soon enough! We have been very thankful this semester to start up our Thursday meal swaps with our St. Louis besties. Amber cooks every other week, and we cook the weeks in between. Its so refreshing to sit down with friends during the week and share a meal, and every other week I don't have to cook or do dishes!!!! 

Looking ahead to the spring -- we plan to pack up our apartment over spring break and prepare to move in May. Its exciting now that we know the city better, to apartment hunt. I just couldn't be more excited to be in walking distance to a park. It feels so isolated to drive 20minutes to the nearest pretty place to walk!

Until next time. Lots of love.  

Katelyn, Sam & Ethel 

Christmas Letter 2012

Dear family and friends,

It's that time again to update you on our lives over this past year, with our Christmas Letter! Which is a good thing, since we were pretty awful at blogging this year. Here goes the update.

Sam is 2.5 years into seminary, and we are still confirmed that this is where we need to be. He took Intro to Counseling this semester and "found out" that he is a perfectionist, and lives with a major perfectionist -- oh the clarity it brought! This year has by far been the craziest year in seminary. We have been so blessed by his new job at Apple, especially because he loves it so much... but it has added a whole new craziness to our schedules. During the holidays, he's been working 35+ hours a week in the midst of finals! Yikes! He made it through finals though, and is finally enjoying a little time to himself, as well as doing lots of laundry for me! Love it! He will be taking one J-term class in January, and the second semester will resume the last week of January.

I have been so blessed this year with a wonderful class at South City Community School. I enjoy my students' more everyday and they have brought so much joy to my life. The school itself has been a huge blessing. I have felt loved, nurtured, stretched, and challenged -- a good balance of all of those things makes for a fantastic first trimester to the school year. Nannying has also started looking up, after a rocky start this past August. The kids are beginning to respect me more, which has allowed for us to get along a lot better. Grayson, when talking to a friend about me, even said I was "legit" (yay!). They are in a major time of transition for their family, and could use our prayers. Its also been very exhausting having two jobs. That being said, most days I am just so incredibly thankful that I am doing what I love, that I feel like the energizer bunny!

 Sam is still playing drums in the worship band at church, and I continue to teach Children's Worship once a month. We love our church, and we are so thankful for feeling loved and cared for by our church family. We are excited to move into our own building on January 13th! A lot of praying, fundraising and work days have gone into owning our building, but it will all be worth it. Our prayer is that we will see the Kingdom of God growing through our outreach and worship in the neighborhood we are moving into. Sam will start his internship at South City this May.

As you all know, our little dog has been through the ringer this year. She is a champion! In fact, for the first time since July, she drank water this morning (she has been getting it from her food). Sam and I smiled at each other and Sam made the perfect comment, "Its funny how ordinary things that all dogs do,  have seemed so unordinary with Ethel. Do you think she feels okay (because her water drinking what such a shock)?" Something as simple as drinking water is GREAT news, for it will help rinse her teeth that have started decaying like crazy. YAY for the small blessings! If there is one word to sum up Ethel's year, it is thankful. Thankful for a living (adorable) dog, thankful for outstanding doctors in Indiana and St. Louis, thankful for parents that have footed doctors bills that we wouldn't be able to, and overall thankfulness for a God that delights in our little dogs!!!!

Being in seminary, we (too) often hear "what are your plans after seminary?" That's a good question! We have no idea. Our plan right now is to move out to South City in May (2013). This is the part of St. Louis where our church and the school I teach at are and we spend about 10+ hours a week going to and from South City (about 30min from our apartment now). It makes the most sense for us to live in South City for convenience (especially with Sam starting his internship) and it will also give us more opportunity to be involved in church ministries. Our apartment at Gulf Drive has been wonderful, but it has also felt very isolated and is not in a very nice/convenient part of STL. We look forward to apartment hunting in the next few months (NOT the packing part) and finding a new place by Tower Grove Park, which is our favorite park in St. Louis! That being said, right now the "plan" is committing to stay in St. Louis for at least a year after we graduate. My job is wonderful and will eventually be really wonderful with offering part-time teaching and free on sight childcare provided by the mothers of students (amazing!!). We are also hoping staying in St. Louis will be a good time for Sam to pick up more hours at Apple after graduation and a rich time of connection making and gaining more pastoral/church ministry experience.

One word to sum up our year is blessed. We are blessed by each other and our marriage. We are blessed by our sweet pup. We are blessed with parents and in-laws that love us unconditionally, support us, and desire to see us flourish. As well as the overwhelming support of our wonderful extended families, and the great love of our grandmas and grandpas. We are blessed to have wonderful friends in St. Louis, during such a transition phase of life. We are blessed by a seminary that nurtures and teaches Sam and blessed by a school that cares for Katelyn so well. We are blessed to live in a city that gives us opportunity to love others, outside of our comfort zone. We are immensely blessed by our church family and the way they loves us and point us to Jesus. I could go on forever. Thank you Lord for blessing us, even though we are so undeserving of all of these blessings!

And as we come in to Christmas, we are blessed to worship our King! "Hark the Herald Angels Sing, GLORY to the NEWBORN KING!" Hoping that you have a blessed Christmas as we celebrate the birth of Jesus. 

We love you.

Love,
Sam, Katelyn & Ethel

Autumn update

Dear family and friends,

Here we are again with another gap in our blogging. Instead of apologizing for my lack of blogging, I'm taking the blogging advice of a dear friend and deciding to blog once a month. That way, I can recap the month and it seems a little more feasible with our busy schedules.

That being said, October was beautiful. The weather was gorgeous (of course, now we are seeing the 80's again), and we really just enjoyed having the windows open and feasting on pumpkin pie the whole month. Since pictures say things louder then words, here is our month recap in pictures --

The biggest update -- our little pup is on the road to a full recovery! The first picture was taken the day after her surgery in Fort Wayne, IN. The second picture is after her 12 week appointment, and finally -- after her 19 week appointment this past week, as we were on our way home "cone - free"! Yay! The doctor said her jaw has completely fused back together and there is no wiggling anymore! She gave us the go ahead over the next few months to transition her back to crunchy food, which is great. However, she came back with a cough and doesn't seem to have an appetite this weekend due to the tube they put down her throat for her wire removal... prayers are appreciated for the next few months as we finish the recovery!

The other exciting news is -- Sam got hired at Apple!!!!! Praise the Lord!!!! He LOVES his job and even stayed 45 minutes late last week because he was working with a customer and didn't notice the time (that never seemed to happen when I was at the daycare?). God has gifted Sam with wonderful people-skills and he really is "in his element" at work. Apple is a wonderful company to work for, and we both feel so blessed to have this job. We are even talking about staying in STL a year past graduation and Sam is hoping to go full-time as an Apple man for that year.

Katelyn's class update -- how I love these kids! In the midst of our study of mammals and Jane Goodall, we took a trip to the STL Zoo and enjoyed seeing the baby elephant as well as sketching an ape in the primate house. These kids soak in everything, and I love watching their brains take it all in.

This is my sweet friend, Amber. As Sam and I reflect on all the things we are thankful for, I am so very thankful for this lady. For those of you that don't know, moving to STL and being in seminary has been quite the adjustment. The first year was really rough and Sam and I struggled a lot with making connections and feeling very lonesome for "real" relationships. I've had one best friend my whole life (16+ years!), and the fear of never becoming close with anyone during this very transitional time in our lives was a very real, and scary reality. That being said, I am so thankful that for a God that hears and answers prayers. Amber and Sean moved in during our second year of seminary, and the friendship was instant for both Sam and Sean and Amber and I. I am so very thankful for close friends here in St. Louis, in Chicago, and all the way in Washington. Thank you, God for blessing us with "real" relationships.

Update on our church -- we have bought our own building!!!! Praise the Lord for his provision. Our church will be moving into our new building on Jan. 27th. We are still loving our church and our church family :) Sam continues to play drums every Sunday, and I lead Children's Worship once a month. South City Church is such a blessing!


That's about it for our recap. Sam is really busy with school and work, but is enjoying both. I am a very proud wife! We are trying to find a good balance with busy schedules and taking time for ourselves and each other. Life is always changing! We so very thankful for all of you, your prayers, and your love, support and encouragement. We are blessed.

Love,
Sam & Katelyn

Recap #98498549353

Well, life lately has been a little crazy. What's new, right? Here comes yet another "recap" blog, but hey- at least we're blogging!

Last weekend we surprised the Dean's and showed up at the WNHS football game! It was too perfect! We had a blast getting to watch little gup play in his first big home game as the starting center for Varsity! Proud big sister moment. He played an amazing game! We enjoyed spending time with the Dean's (including Grandma Dean!) on Friday and Saturday, then heading over and spending time with Gaye and Jim Saturday and Sunday. Unfortunately, the weekend ended with heavy, saddened hearts for our dear friends Anna and Scott who gave birth to their second miscarried baby boy in the past 6 months. We were thankful to have been home to spend time with them in the midst of such a horrific time and we look forward to meeting little Seth and Caleb in Heaven someday.

Next up, is an update on our little Ethel. Gaye came down for her 8 week follow up appointment this week, and unfortunately we didn't get the best of news. Her jaw doesn't seem to be healing, so they have given her 4 more weeks of cone wearing and recovery. When we go back in 4 weeks, they will re-assess and decided whether or not doing surgery to implant plates and screws would be beneficial. Ethel doesn't have the best dental health, so that could have something to do with her delayed recovery. Poor thing hates the cone, and is just not herself with it on. We are praying (and would appreciate your prayers) that her jaw would fuse back together in the next 4 weeks to avoid major surgery again. Isn't she the cutest cone head you've ever seen?

Now for an update on my class. Teaching has been such a huge blessing -- I am enjoying every minute and soaking up their sweetness daily. My class is seriously wonderful and I am enjoying teaching more then I ever have before. Of course, there are days that are frustrating and very exhausting. Last week, one of my sweet boys said, "Miss Katelyn, I can tell you've had a rough day. You keep saying "SHHHHHH" a lot." Way to call me out! The first few weeks of school we have really enjoyed getting to know each other, working on our class garden, and beginning to ease into curriculum. Here are few pictures of center time, gardening and of course a class pic.

With that, I am also nannying part time (we couldn't swing my part-time, private school salary). So, my school day goes from 8:30-1pm and then I nanny from 3:15-6:30. I started last week, and I am enjoying my time with them. They really are sweet kids. Here is a pic of them doing their homework!

And finally, an update on Sam and I. Praise the Lord -- Sam got a job! For those of you that didn't know, Sam left his barista job at Shaw's in May. Which ended up being a blessing because he was able to work a very flexible maintenance job for our landlord (during all of Ethel's recovery). However, he has been on the hunt for a job since May and I am so proud of him for taking a job as a window washer! Yay Sam! He will be working for a company called Kings, that primarily employs seminary students. He will work the 8-noon shift on M,W, F (he doesn't have class those days), and he gets weekends and holidays off! We are so thankful.

Today we soaked up this beautiful weather by taking a trip to Castlewood State Park (about 40 min from us), and took a 3 mile scenic hike. It was perfect. We came home, opened all the windows and are now enjoying some quality relaxing time together (and of course, coffee).

I think that's it. We will hope to be better this month about posting -- but I've made that promise one too many times before! We hope you are enjoying this beautiful weather as much as we are!

Love,
Sam, Katelyn and the pup.

Time flies.

Wow! It seems like forever since the last time we blogged. A lot has happened this summer to make it a "summer to remember" and very hectic at that. For those of you that don't know, our sweet little Ethel was in an accident with another dog in July and had reconstructive jaw surgery in Indiana during the Haist family reunion. It was extremely scary, and we are finally feeling out of the "funk". Ethel, of course, has handled everything like a champ. September 5th we go for our follow up appointment, and we are praying from there that she will be free from the cone! Here is a picture of Ethel the day we took her home from the hospital (left), and her 8 weeks later (right) when she got her stitches taken out! Happy as always!

 That being said, the family reunion this year was rather eventful (in a not good way). We did enjoy seeing the Haist side of the family for the time we did. Its always a blessing to spend time with them! Here is the only picture we took... Gaye and Mr. Alex from our day at the farm... he will be ONE this month!

We also had a wonderful weekend at home with the Dean's at the end of July. It included a trip to Ikea, Ava's 4th birthday party, a visit with Grandma and Grandpa Nelson, Christina and Jensen's Wheaton wedding reception and quality catch up time with Mom and Dad. It was a fun weekend, and it was great to be "home". Here is a picture of Ava and Lauren blowing out her candles!

Then comes... August! Classroom time! My last day at the daycare was Thursday! Then Friday, I started training at SCCS. The carpet in my room was being cleaned on Friday, so Sam and I had to wait until today to "move in". We had so much fun!!! I can't say it enough... this is such a huge blessing to have my own classroom, and at such a wonderful school! Praise the Lord!

I know my family is dying to see classroom pictures, so here is round one. We will have to make a second trip up to school with more fun classroom additions (including my beautiful rocking chair!). So for now, use your imagination (my table legs and third round table won't come in til next week either). Thank you for all of your encouragement... what a journey this has been and it has only begun! Here is a picture of my classroom last week before I "moved in" today...

...and here are some after shots!

Well, there you have it! The remainder of our summer in a nutshell. Sam and I both start school at the end of the month! Time flies.

We love you guys.
 Sam & Katelyn

P.S. I forgot to include a very important picture (and blogger won't let me insert it above the rest), but Sam went under care of the Missouri Presbytery in July! He is officially an intern of the Presbytery. I am so proud (and how cute is his bow-tie)!